We're constantly being told that divorce is traumatic, stressful, expensive, and painful. But what if there is another way?
Here are some of the steps you can take that will assist you on this journey:
1. Recognising you haven't failed
Nobody sets out to get divorced, we commit to marriage and believe that we know our partner and want to be the same as we are today in 10, 20, 30 years from now. But during that time, we change and grow as individuals and can grow apart – particularly as we are now living a lot longer. Recognising this, and accepting that it’s no one’s fault , allows for further growth, and for you to both move on as individuals without blame.
2. An unhappy marriage is the bigger problem
We are all products of our environment. As children, we develop our beliefs, behaviours and habits in our sub-conscious that will dictate our outcomes for the rest of our lives – the majority of which come from our parents. It is essential, therefore, that we create the best environment possible, as parents, for our children – one that will empower them as adults to create their own success and healthy relationships. An unhappy marriage does not provide that, but a divorce done well will.
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